Soak the Seeds: In a glass jar or ceramic container with a tight-fitting lid, combine the yellow mustard seeds, brown/black mustard seeds, red wine (or water), vinegar, and salt.
Do not use a metal container, as the acid can cause it to corrode.
Stir or shake well to combine, then seal and set aside at room temperature for 1 to 2 days to soften.
Blend to Perfection: Pour the entire soaked mixture into a blender.
Blend for several minutes, stopping to scrape down the sides as needed. If the mixture is too thick to blend smoothly, add a tablespoon of water at a time to help it move. You can control the texture here—blend less for a very coarse, whole-grain mustard, or more for a smoother (but still textured) result.
Store and Mellow: Transfer the finished mustard back into your glass jar and seal tightly. The mustard will be quite sharp and pungent at first. For the best flavor, let it mellow in the refrigerator for at least 24 hours, or up to a week. It will thicken and the flavors will meld beautifully over time. Store in the refrigerator for up to several months.